| Location | Burnley, Lancashire |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 04/03/2009 |
| Date of Death | 01/03/2009 |
| Visitors | 1,333 since 26/05/2009 |
| Creator |
I just want to say a huge thank you to everyone who lights candles for Harry! I don't come on much
but it means so much to me that she is thought of and cared for! I am overwhelmed and touched by the
amount of people that take the time to do that for me and Harry! I really appreciate it! Love to you
and your Angel's xxx
Harry was my second pregnancy I already have a gorgeous little girl (Evie) who was born in October
2007. It started off the same as my first with Hyperemesis right up to 18 weeks. These were a tough
18 weeks after loosing 2 1/2 stone not keeping anything down and being admitted to hospital. When
this all started to fade I was looking forward to my 20 week scan. This is where I found out Harry
had a problem with his heart although I still don't know exactly what it was as he never got a
diagnosis. I was told his right side of his heart was smaller than usual and the left was larger.
The right side being smaller meant the valve that pumped blood would need operating on when he was
born to make larger. After many checks with midwifes and scans with my consultant I was told Harry
was absolutely fine while he was inside me and that he would encounter the problems when he was
born. I went for my final scan at 29 weeks and was told I wouldn't see my consultant again until I'd
delivered as everything was fine and on his risk chart I was very low risk. I prepared myself for my
baby having to have operations and for stays in hospital but nothing prepared me for what was
coming. On the 1st March 2009 at 32 weeks I couldn't recall whether my baby had been moving. I
monitored it for about 3 hours and definateley felt nothing. I went down to the hospital (thinking
this was a waste of the midwifes time) and was told that there was no heartbeat. My baby had gone
without even saying hello. On the 4th March after a calm, quite birth (which I thank the brilliant
midwifes for) I gave birth to a gorgeous little boy weighing 4lb. He was gorgeous and it was hard to
believe he wasn't alive I kept expecting him to cry or open his eyes.
We spent 3 days in hospital with him in the SANDS room which was unforgettable and I'm so glad we
did it. We took many photos and family came to visit. The midwifes / doctors were really good at
Burnley hospital and made the whole experience easier I couldn't of asked for better care.
So this is how I got here sharing my story with you all. We had a private cremation and released
some balloons with messages on the whole day was very confusing and emotional but in some ways a
beautiful day.
After receiving the post mortem results it was concluded that Harry died due to unknown reasons. It
was not his heart that caused his death as this was only a minor problem. We are now left not
knowing like so many others.
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________________♣♣ GOODNIGHT SWEETHEART . X
~~~~~~ Nine Long Months ~~~~~~~~
I carried you for nine long months
looking forward to your birth
Little did I ever know
you'd never breath on earth
I'd made such plans for your life,
looking forwards to bringing you home
I never though for one second
When I came home I’d be alone
They said there been some complications,
they said that you had gone
I couldn't understand their words
What had happened? What had gone wrong?
Now they don’t want to talk of you
the people who drop by
They think that I should just accept
my baby's in the sky.
I’ll keep a part of you with me
and everywhere I am you’ll be
I know we’ll meet again some day
Then in my arms you'll always stay
Every day I’ll think of you
think of you with love
My precious little baby,
my angel up above.
Copyright� Ingrid Aspey 2009
Angel..xx
Your little boy is gorgeous....
Cherish the memories that you have, they will help you through this sad time...
My thoughts are with you & your family..xxx
What a beautiful boy, such a loss, I truly feel for you and pray that you find an inner strength to see you through this time, will be thinking of you x
Tears in Heaven
Would you know my name
if I saw you in heaven
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven
I must be strong and carry on
'Cos I know I don't belong
Here in heaven
Time can bring you down
Time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart
Have you begging please
Begging please
Beyond the door
There's a peace I'm sure
And I know
There'll be no more
Tears in heaven
Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven
I must be strong and carry on
'Cos I know I don't belong
Here in heaven.
Eric Clapton
An Angel Never Dies
Don’t let them say I wasn’t born,
But something stopped my heart
I felt each tender squeeze you gave,
I loved you from the start.
Although my body you can’t hold,
It doesn’t mean I’m gone,
This world was worthy not of me,
God chose that I move on.
I know the pain that drowns your soul,
What you are forced to face.
You have my word, I’ll fill your arms,
Some day we will embrace.
You’ll hear “that it was meant to be”
God doesn’t make mistakes,
But that won’t soften your worst blow,
Or make your heart not ache.
I’m watching over all you do,
Another child you’ll bear,
Believe me when I say to you,
That I am always there.
There will come a time, I promise you,
When you will hold my hand,
Stroke my face, and kiss my lips,
And you’ll understand.
Although I never breathed your air,
Or gazed into your eyes,
That doesn’t mean I never “was”
An Angel never dies.
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your baby boy is so beautiful. It must have been so hard saying goodbye. I hope you are strong and never forget him.
26TH MAY 2009
GOOD EVENING SWEET ANGEL
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I'M SENDING A DOVE TO HEAVEN
WITH A PARCEL ON IT'S WINGS,
BE CAREFULL WHEN YOU OPEN IT
IT'S FULL OF BEAUTIFUL THING'S
INSIDE ARE A MILLION KISSES
WRAPPED UP IN A MILLION HUGS,
TO SAY HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU
AND TO SEND YOU ALL MY LOVE.
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LOVE JUDE. X
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god bless HARRY
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JUST DROPPED IN TO SAY GOOD NITE SO SNUGGLE UP NICE AND WARM FOR THE NITE.
NITE NITE
SWEET DREAMS
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