| Location | Burnley, Lancashire |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 04/03/2009 |
| Date of Death | 01/03/2009 |
| Visitors | 2,102 since 26/05/2009 |
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I just want to say a huge thank you to everyone who lights candles for Harry! I don't come on much but it means so much to me that he is thought of and cared for! I am overwhelmed and touched by the amount of people that take the time to do that for me and Harry! I really appreciate it! Love to you and your Angel's xxx
Harry was my second pregnancy I already have a gorgeous little girl (Evie) who was born in October 2007. It started off the same as my first with Hyperemesis right up to 18 weeks. These were a tough 18 weeks after loosing 2 1/2 stone not keeping anything down and being admitted to hospital. When this all started to fade I was looking forward to my 20 week scan. This is where I found out Harry had a problem with his heart although I still don't know exactly what it was as he never got a diagnosis. I was told his right side of his heart was smaller than usual and the left was larger. The right side being smaller meant the valve that pumped blood would need operating on when he was born to make larger. After many checks with midwifes and scans with my consultant I was told Harry was absolutely fine while he was inside me and that he would encounter the problems when he was born. I went for my final scan at 29 weeks and was told I wouldn't see my consultant again until I'd delivered as everything was fine and on his risk chart I was very low risk. I prepared myself for my baby having to have operations and for stays in hospital but nothing prepared me for what was coming. On the 1st March 2009 at 32 weeks I couldn't recall whether my baby had been moving. I monitored it for about 3 hours and definateley felt nothing. I went down to the hospital (thinking this was a waste of the midwifes time) and was told that there was no heartbeat. My baby had gone without even saying hello. On the 4th March after a calm, quite birth (which I thank the brilliant midwifes for) I gave birth to a gorgeous little boy weighing 4lb. He was gorgeous and it was hard to believe he wasn't alive I kept expecting him to cry or open his eyes.
We spent 3 days in hospital with him in the SANDS room which was unforgettable and I'm so glad we did it. We took many photos and family came to visit. The midwifes / doctors were really good at Burnley hospital and made the whole experience easier I couldn't of asked for better care.
So this is how I got here sharing my story with you all. We had a private cremation and released some balloons with messages on the whole day was very confusing and emotional but in some ways a beautiful day.
After receiving the post mortem results it was concluded that Harry died due to unknown reasons. It was not his heart that caused his death as this was only a minor problem. We are now left not knowing like so many others.
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Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good
In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still
In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then
In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
A Birthday In Heaven - by Kris Smith
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My Birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a Birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play jump rope
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
We’ll have our cake and ice cream
And open gifts - SURPRISE!
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel XX
Born Asleep - by Unknown Author
“Born Asleep" - such a beautiful phrase,
Always touches me to the core.
The broken cries of a Mother's heart
When it just can't take anymore.
I open my heart, one Mum to another,
So you never lose your hope,
That although it gets no easier,
I promise you'll learn to cope.
Remember your Angel is sleeping
In a world much kinder than ours
And will always be there to hold your hand
Even in your darkest hours.
My own little Angel will keep an eye,
And play with yours in their park.
But you must find your love and strength,
And feed your own little spark.
You'll never be alone my friend,
I will always understand.
If the tides loom up to swallow you,
Just reach out and grab my hand.
XX
1 Year On
Since the day I found out you were in my tummy
I knew I'd be a great mummy
I'd love to feel every kick you gave
A memory now I will always save
Getting things ready for the big day
Knowing soon I'm going to see you play
Seeing one big smile on your face
All the little things you'll do we'll be amazed
Now GOD may have taken the best of us
But only he knows what he does
On March 4th, 2009 I saw you born
And now my heart will always be torn
Having to move on not forgetting your face
Letting you know that in my heart is a space
Where you'll stay to play all day
and you'll never have to go away..
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~~~~~~ Nine Long Months ~~~~~~~~
I carried you for nine long months
looking forward to your birth
Little did I ever know
you'd never breath on earth
I'd made such plans for your life,
looking forwards to bringing you home
I never though for one second
When I came home I’d be alone
They said there been some complications,
they said that you had gone
I couldn't understand their words
What had happened? What had gone wrong?
Now they don’t want to talk of you
the people who drop by
They think that I should just accept
my baby's in the sky.
I’ll keep a part of you with me
and everywhere I am you’ll be
I know we’ll meet again some day
Then in my arms you'll always stay
Every day I’ll think of you
think of you with love
My precious little baby,
my angel up above.
Copyright� Ingrid Aspey 2009
Angel..xx
Your little boy is gorgeous....
Cherish the memories that you have, they will help you through this sad time...
My thoughts are with you & your family..xxx
What a beautiful boy, such a loss, I truly feel for you and pray that you find an inner strength to see you through this time, will be thinking of you x
Tears in Heaven
Would you know my name
if I saw you in heaven
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven
I must be strong and carry on
'Cos I know I don't belong
Here in heaven
Time can bring you down
Time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart
Have you begging please
Begging please
Beyond the door
There's a peace I'm sure
And I know
There'll be no more
Tears in heaven
Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven
I must be strong and carry on
'Cos I know I don't belong
Here in heaven.
Eric Clapton
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